45mth - Understanding korkor 19mth - Stops crying when going to school

I would say that the jealousy part of Keath is no longer present. What used to be a whiney boy whenever i need to be with Zeth has fortunately disappeared. I used to ask him if he feels sad when i carry or feed didi and he will say yes. Now when i ask the same questions, he says no. :):) He loves his little brother and I guess is used to life with him around. The things that we do with didi is what he sees everyday and institutionalized to be normal. So for example, i need to accompany zeth to sleep every night before i accompany him to sleep. He will wait patiently for zeth to sleep before he gets a piece of me. No disturbing, no knocking, very well behaved :)

When i asked Keath who is his favourite persons, he gives me this rank order:
1. Didi
2. Mummy
3. Keath
4. Mil
5. Daddy
6. Fil
7. My mum
8. My dad
9. No more already

I was sooo touched to know that Didi is his favourite person. Even though i lost to didi, i am so glad that he places his brother above all of us. Hope you 2 become the best of friends and live your life to the fullest with each other in company. I am also so surprised that he remembers to love himself as number 3! As adults, we are often so critical of ourselves and we beat ourselves up. We need to learn from a little boy who would remember to love himself! Daddy is number 5, understandably. He does not have any other people in mind after number 8. Mummy, ah pa, you all made it into the ranking list too :) A child's words are the most genuine and yes, i can understand how he came up with this rank order!

Keath has also grown up. He can hold a pen in a perfect tripod position. We bought him a pair of pororo assisted chopsticks and he could hold it really well. Ends up loving to eat noodles nowadays so that he can use the chopsticks hahaha. This month he became really addicted to peppa pig. Everyday can on youtube and watch peppa pig, the same episodes. Yes, he can navigate around the smart tv. Kids these days.

Keath's teacher told me that he has a few nicknames in school - handsome boy, Keath Korean, Korean boy. But he doesnt understand why they call him korean. Cos they find him handsome. Must have been a good boy in his past life to get his good looks. But hubby will always say got looks no good as he's such a moody and grumpy boy. Hahah, aiya, everyone is not perfect in many ways. His personality is born like that.

Zeth got used to school really quickly! After the 2 weeks break from school, he was back for 1.5 weeks before he stopped crying! That was only 2.5 weeks of crying as compared to Keath's 5 months hahaha. The teachers say that he has adapted very well. When they turn on the music, he becomes the one who is the most high! Yes, he's sensitive to music. Always dance when he hears music! So cute. The teachers say that when they are unhappy, just look at Zeth and they will become happy already. He exudes joy and all the positivities in life! =D

He has discovered how to scream these days and you can hear him shrek. He is also trying to sing songs nowadays. But of cos he cant and can only sing the last word of each phrase =p He is saying more and more things. Instead of one or two word nouns, he can piece words together e.g. Mummy's leg. Zeth has also learnt how to jump! He can jump now, though not very stable and high yet. Jumps here and there everyday, very happy. Very curious, ask about anything that he sees, and keeps repeating the same questions. Just have to be very patient, but how not to when you look at that lovely and innocent face. Hahaha, just a mother who is obsessed with her 2 boys =D