One good thing that has happened now is that Keath no longer wants to nap in the mall! Hahaha one day he just told us that it is troublesome to nap in the stroller in the mall (probably cos his legs are too long for him to sleep well in the stroller already) and he says that he wants to nap at home. Woo hoo! Good for the hubby. So when we now bring the two of them home for afternoon naps, they both just obediently go to sleep and would not fight it. Great that it is like an SOP for them already.
I no longer let Zeth sleep alone in the room now. So in the first half of the night, I will sleep with Keath. When Zeth cries in the middle of the night (for sure will happen 2-3 times a night), I will then move in to his room. I could consider putting the 2 boys in the same room but that would just mean that Zeth will disrupt Keath's good sleep. This should probably wait until Zeth outgrows the night wakings. Zeth also likes to do fake cries nowadays. He likes to whine mummy mummy and learn from keath to do fake cries just to get attention.
I have been on leave for 2 weeks and actually it is very shiok to have nothing much planned for the local leave. I brought them out to the zoo, bird park and very big bouncy castle when they had no school. Im very ok bringing them out myself. I find that I enjoy this bonding time that I have with them alone and knowing that I can do this myself. I went Christmas shopping, massage, facial, set up my new iPhone 11 Pro max and went out with my friends and family. Then spent the remaining time working. Yea, I loved how carefree the leave is even though there is work. It is at a slower pace and I can do it at my own time and target. Too fast and the leave is coming to an end now.
